Personality disorders: patterns, signs and treatment

Written by: Dr Daniela Rossi
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Edited by: Emma McLeod

My clients often say that finally receiving a diagnosis of personality disorder gives them some comfort. A diagnosis materialises their internal struggle and they find relief in knowing that their difficulties aren’t “in their head”.

A woman with one hand on her cheek, the other hand around her head at the back. She looks into the camera.

Having said that, I prefer a more person-focused approach to treatment rather than a diagnosis-focused one. This is because I don’t believe that a sole diagnosis necessarily helps clients make sense of their difficulties.

 

The definition of personality

Personality in psychology to refer to the patterns of how each person thinks, feels and behaves. It’s what makes you unique from others.

 

Your personality is influenced by several factors:

  1. Past and present experiences
  2. Environment (surroundings and life situations)
  3. Inherited characteristics

 

Personality disorder explained

Personality disorder means that a person’s way of thinking, feeling and behaving deviates from what we expect. It means that the patterns of their personality are causing them distress and troubles in daily functioning.

 

There are numerous types of personality disorder but they all share one aspect: a long-term pattern of significantly different behaviour than what’s expected.

 

When personality disorders are diagnosed

Personality disorders can begin during childhood, though they are more frequently noticed by the late teen years or in early adulthood. This is when distress and problems in functioning become more obvious.

 

If they’re left untreated

Untreated personality disorders generally result in long-lasting and irregular behavioural and relational patterns. We see these patterns in at least two of four areas:

  1. How they think about themselves and others.
  2. The way they emotionally respond.
  3. How they relate to other people.
  4. How they control their own behaviour.

 

How people with personality disorder feel

My clients with personality disorder come to therapy with complaints of symptoms, rather than the disorder itself. The chief complaints include:

 

They might come to therapy also seeking help for:

 

Signs of a personality disorder

The general signs of personality disorder are:

  1. A client (or a friend or relative) reporting: “I/he/she has always been this way”.
  2. They might accept their personality patterns as an acceptable, core part of who they are, and say things like: “I can’t imagine being any other way”
  3. When a client insistently avoids their psychological treatment. This can signal that we need to evaluate their personality traits further.
  4. When someone abruptly stops coming to therapy without an apparent reason.
  5. When a client isn’t aware of their behaviour’s impact on others. They may report how others behaved, but fail to address any provocation or dysfunctional behaviour on their part.
  6. The client wants to change but they don’t follow through on an agreed management plan, therefore taking no action despite having the initial motivation.

 

Approach to treatment

We can conceptualise the treatment of personality disorder as a multi-modal approach. The psychologist and the client aim to address:

  1. Cognitive distortions
  2. Dysfunctional behaviours
  3. Emotional dysregulation
  4. Personal and interpersonal difficulties

 

And to do this, we use three components in treatment: cognitive, expressive and relational.

 

Take a look at Dr Daniela Rossi’s profile to discover how she can help you manage personality disorder.

By Dr Daniela Rossi
Psychology

Dr Daniela Rossi is a leading Psychologist who is based in London. She currently sees patients at The Private Therapy Clinic on Harley Street and also at 136 Drummond Street. Her specialist skills include working with complex trauma, psychosis, dual diagnosis and personality disorders.

Dr Rossi is a skilled independent practitioner with a broad range of clinical experience who works in a flexible way that matches the client’s requirements. Dr Rossi has many years of experience working within the NHS as a Clinical Psychologist. During her career she has developed a broad range of skills in mental health. Dr Rossi is also experienced in working with less severe presentations. Her practice is informed by evidence-based interventions and supported by routine outcome measures.

Dr Rossi is an Associate Fellow (AFBPsS) of the British Psychological Society, she also gained many of her academic qualifications at the renowned Sapienza University of Rome. Dr Rossi has numerous certificates in different areas of psychology, including cognitive-based therapy and personality disorder.

Registration number: PYL20407

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